Thursday, August 19, 2021

Homeleave reset before a new start in Addis


Our month of home leave is over: we are on the plane back to Addis Ababa. So as I sit with a 13-hour flight ahead of me, It’s good to look back and document some of the great (and not so good) moments of this time back in the USA.

We arrived on a Thursday morning in Washington and my dad picked us up in their van to drive us back in the direction of our family home north of Baltimore. We didn’t waste any time starting the process of being fully vaccinated, showing up early for our appointment at Walgreens to get Pfizer shot #1 before even landing at my parents’ house. 

Jam making with Gramma Jean

I can’t describe how grateful we were that all four of us could get that COVID vaccine; it’s a huge relief after feeling like we were constantly entering situations in our work and social life that challenged our risk tolerance. We are also glad that we can be part of the solution to this ongoing and changing pandemic, stopping the spread of new variants and keeping our parents, friends and colleagues safer.

We were tired but it was great to be back in the USA, and taste our first of many meals of grilled salmon and fresh Maryland sweet corn (favorite foods that we’ve missed in East Africa). In the first three days, our kids enjoyed doing some “normal” American chores with their grandparents. 


Oren mowed their lawn while David helped with weeding, and David also tried out the riding lawn mower for the first time. My mom involved David in making some wineberry jam. I also went to a local organic farm to pick blueberries and blackberries with my mother and to share some good conversation.  We also picked up cousin Gabriel to hang out, play games and even take a trip down to the Little Gunpowder Falls for a refreshing dip in the river. It was his first time to swim there and we all enjoyed diving down, seeing the fish in the stream, and trying to swim against the current in a few of the deeper swimming holes.

Cousins
The highlight of our first weekend back was a big multi-celebration with our family in Baltimore, to recognize 2 anniversaries (ours and Paul’s parents) and 2 birthdays (Oren and mine). Paul’s parents came over to hang out and share lunch, together with my brother’s family, and even Aunt Emma, Jonathan’s wife. It was great to see our boys having a chance to catch up with Miriam and Gabriel, their cousins, who are super fun to hang out with. They also started having sweet times with their grandparents, giving warm hugs after two years. We all marveled at enjoying conversation indoors with no masks, because everyone else is fully vaccinated. It was such a remarkable contrast from last year, when we only met outside, at socially distanced tables.

Paul, Oren, Gabe, Paul, Henry, David, Dave
On Sunday, the most restful part of our home leave began. Last year, we spent about two months staying in a borrowed vacation house by the Chesapeake Bay, free rent in exchange for time spent painting and doing repairs. We contacted Dr. Eric again, and he was willing to rent his place to us again. Then he came back to us, and invited us to do some mowing and a few small repairs and he would call it even. We honestly can’t believe his generosity in letting us stay in that great location free of charge, but we were happy to do it. It’s a big three-bedroom A-frame house with plenty of air-conditioned common space indoors and a big yard ideal for various lawn games.


One of many family picnics by the Bay

In fact, it was the perfect place to spend time with the family of Paul’s youngest brother Jonathan. They came to meet us there last year, and so it was great to recreate a really nice 10 days with them again. With all the outdoor picnic space, and a lovely view of the Bay, it’s also a great place to invite our parents to come and spend time with us and in nature. We had several different gatherings out under the trees, enjoying grilled dinners and salads, and the view of bald eagles soaring past over the water, as well as the raucous calls of the blue herons scared up from their fishing spots.


Fletcher v Oren
Jonathan drove up with his son Fletcher (his wife Emma came earlier by plane), and thankfully they managed to fit in his awesome home-made corn hole set. Corn hole was a hit last summer, and things only got more competitive this year. Various combinations of cousins, uncles, aunts, and grandfathers formed teams and played cut-throat rounds of corn hole against each other. 

Even the grandmothers who didn’t play enjoyed watching and cheering. I could probably fill this entire blog with photos of our extended family playing corn hole on many, many days over the past month.


Dr. Eric has a high-quality croquet set at his house and we also had a great time setting that up and getting a game going at least once a day. It was especially funny to play with my dad, who is truly a croquet shark and just about unbeatable. There was bocce ball all around the house. Frisbee on a few evenings. 

And Oren enjoyed his birthday gift yard game, Crossnet, foursquare meets volleyball. When Miriam and Gabriel came out to visit, they really loved playing this fast-paced physical game together.


We anticipated needing some watercraft this year, and so Paul and I invested in an inflatable 2-person kayak and an inflatable stand up paddle board. Both of them turned out to be high quality and functional. 

Together with my parent’s canoe, we had enough boat space for at least five people to be on the water at a time. Sadly, by mid-July, the shallow water of that part of the Bay can get clogged with sea grass. In fact, our whole water access needed to be cleared of land weeds, and then we had to wait for high tide to get through the water weeds and out to open water. It’s a little less nice than in Spring, but we still got out onto the water almost every day.


The thing about Home Leave is that we still needed to be able to answer emails now and then; even Jon and Emma had to do a few hours of work each day; and the internet in the boonies was just terrible! But we managed to do what was necessary to keep our office running, sometimes going out to the public library for better internet.  The kids are now old enough to fend for themselves for entertainment when they need to. So we also enjoyed quite a few board games, and David enjoyed assembling two 1000 piece puzzles in two weeks, all while singing along to Hamilton. (many of us pitched in on the effort, but David was the chief puzzler).


On one of our first days together, Paul and I took David and cousin Fletcher on a canoe trip up the Principio Creek. Fletcher was my canoe partner. He doesn’t have much opportunity to canoe except when he visits us, and he was really attentive and full of questions about the natural environment, the birds, our history in the area. It was really a pleasure to share that time with him. 


David just loves getting to the picturesque spot under the Amtrak railway bridge and throwing in a line. Even Fletcher got involved in the fishing. I simply love being out under the trees and on the water. I took at least one solo trip in the kayak and explored for various places where it wasn’t too muddy and the weeds hadn’t taken hold and we might actually get the kids in the water to swim (that is also a drawback of the weedy summertime). 

As I will relate later, we never got to take advantage of those potential swimming spots… Along the way, I tracked down a lush orange Northern Oriole (hiding too well in the underbrush for a photo), and got some great views of the eagles.

We also enjoyed a couple of excursions around the area. One afternoon we all went to a local mini-golf place and had fun goofing off and hitting the ball around. On another evening, we visited the Cecil County Fair. We were some of the few wearing masks at a red-county celebration (and I got a little bit of jeering for it), but the kids found it pretty entertaining to ride the rides on the midway and pay too much money for fried fair food. We even got to watch a few minutes of the rodeo, and marvel at the athleticism of the guys who do steer wrestling, jumping backwards off a horse to grab a young bull by the horns and wrestle it to the ground.

Fair games: he won a pink dolphin!


During the month of July, I got a little bit of a bee in my bonnet about pie. I had read an article on July 4th about how Americans are in danger of losing the art of baking our national dish: pie. Cake and cookies have really replaced pie and these days, most people don’t even know what to aim for in creating a light, flaky pie crust. I realize that I truly don’t need to eat pie. But, my mother-in-law Bunny has been called a pie expert, yet  I hadn’t ever baked pie with her. Bunny was gracious enough to get out her pastry equipment and to walk me through her family recipe for making pie pastry, showing me tricks along the way. 



Pie-making with Bunny and Jean

She also related stories of her childhood when they relied on growing a big garden during the summer so that they could preserve vegetables and have healthy food to eat in the winter. There was a ton of work to do on the farm, but fruits were plentiful and so they made two pies a day to feed their big working family and any of the guys helping out for the summer. We put fresh blackberries and peaches into some pies, and really enjoyed them with our parents.

Jonathan is remarkable jazz guitarist and his beautiful new guitar also claimed some real estate in his car on the way up to see us. We had several nights of jam sessions after our parents left for the evening, with Paul and Jon remembering all the old classic rock albums they enjoyed in their youth. Lots of the songs were good ones for harmonizing (Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young, Led Zeppelin, et al). Paul would just start singing some famous guitar riff off the top of his head, and Jonathan would somehow know exactly what tune that was and how to play the song perfectly to accompany our imperfect singing/mumbling of the lyrics we couldn’t quite remember.

 

Oren and Miriam chatting
Besides our parents, we had a few other day visitors. Miriam and Gabriel came out to spend some time with us (Miriam spending two nights, actually). We got in the pool for a little while and played a bunch of great board games indoors (the weather got super-hot and biting flies made it harder to be outside for a few days). Our friend Ashley came out with two of her kids, and David was delighted to have his age-mate Liam to share time with him fishing. They spent a long time on our dock and actually caught fish from between the see grass. We had planned to build a bonfire and roast hotdogs on sticks that evening, but towards late afternoon we realized that a storm was imminent. 


Campfires, s'mores, evening water

Ashley suggested protecting some of our firewood in the garage, and so we frantically ran around with the wheelbarrow and gathered up the fallen wood in the yard. Then, after a tremendous and quick storm, we had a collective effort to build a fire and still had our weenie roast with marshmallows later on.

Along the way in those two weeks, we also had some unfortunate events. One early morning, David was out by the dock trying to catch minnows for bait. He had gotten a really good bait net from Amazon, the kind that could telescope and become longer. However, as he was swiping through the water, chasing minnows, the aluminum telescoping pole snapped off. He discarded the broken handle and kept using the remaining 2 feet of pole, continuing to aggressively jerk his net through the water. I was outside to exercise and suddenly I heard him cry out in pain. He came running up the walk, blood running down his lower leg. When we got him settled, we discovered that the sharp broken end of the aluminum pole had acted just like a scalpel and sliced his leg deeply, long and clean. We put pressure on the wound, got his leg elevated and waited for the urgent care center to open. 

Games with Emma, Paul, Henry, Jonathan, Oren

The nurse thanked him for cutting his leg so cleanly, and he was pretty brave through the pain of the lidocaine injections. He ended up with seven stitches holding together this gruesome injury. And what was worse: he was absolutely forbidden from getting in the Bay water (or any water) for the remainder of our vacation. No swimming in the Bay. So very unfortunate for a nature-loving kid like him. ;-(. 

Serious mini-golf
I won’t lie: there were two separate times when David was playing near the water and, due to an unfortunate mishap, managed to submerge his leg up to the knee. Straight into the shower he went to wash the wound again. But still, after 10 days, he developed an infection in the wound and needed to be on antibiotics. Probably I can’t post any wound photos here, lest we get banned from Facebook. He’s all better now, but the kid has a scar and a story that he can tell for years to come.

Meanwhile, Paul somehow developed an infection in his leg. We have no idea how it happened, but two days later he was feverish with a very swollen calf. He drove in to town to consult with our doctor and needed to follow up with a surgeon to cut the cellulitis open and get it to drain. 


In his case, it was a bit scary with the risk of a systemic infection. But thankfully the antibiotics started to help after a few days. Still, these medical issues cost us quite a bit of time and money, and took away some of the fun – it’s hard to stay up late and enjoy company when you’re in a lot of pain. And for two weeks, Paul and David had matching bandages around their calves.

Paul was really worried about how he would get the repair work done with his wounded leg, but fortunately he was feeling better by the end of our second week. He borrowed a truck with a lift so that he could go high up on the front cedar siding and fill holes in the wood damaged by woodpeckers. The next day he stained the wood and made it look almost as good as new. I did some deep cleaning of a few public spaces. And we did our best to help the house look fresh and welcoming for whenever Dr. Eric came down again.

Jean, Henry, Fletcher and Emma

On a Saturday of perfect weather, we sadly had to spend much of the day cleaning up to leave. My parents came to help and to take our kids home with them to mow. But towards mid-afternoon, Paul and I were done. We had a little time to sit and enjoy the view and contemplate how far we had come. Since January, we have been in a constant state of transition and upheaval, without steady family routine, and with a lot of anticipated change. We were really looking forward to this time in the US as a time to reset and regather strength so that we could fully enter into our new life in Ethiopia. 


Final fishing trip up the creek

When we first arrived in Addis in July, it was just too quick of a transition and too close to the grief of parting with friends in Tanzania. We really needed the quiet, green space by the Bay, especially now that it is infused with so many homely memories for us as a family. It’s a spot I’ve been coming to since I was 8 years old, and Paul has been joining me for the past 20 years. And layered on top of that were the fascinating months of lockdown last spring in this same location. It was good to remember what that time of stillness felt like (though this home leave was much busier) and to remember what nurtured us as a family through those four months last year. We also had to turn and face the next two weeks—packed with all the doctors visits and many more gatherings with friends. It’s not easy to be back in the US for this relatively short time. There’s just too much to savor, too many good friends to try to catch up with, too many things to remember to bring back with us. The pressure to make it a good visit is high…


Paul, Jean and Henry

We especially wanted to return Saturday evening so that we could be part of a church picnic on Sunday after a Zoom worship service. Sadly, the weather turned from bad to worse. A few people made it to the church picnic, but it was already drizzling when we arrived. Our kids stayed in the car and we just stood around in our raincoats, just enough time to greet a few people before the heavens opened and we all scattered. Then we spend a lot of the afternoon waiting around in the urgent care facility to get David’s infected wound tended to. Finally, we made it to Paul’s parents’ apartment where we spent some time and dropped off David for a sleepover. Oren had his sleepover later in the week. I’m so glad that each of our kids had intentional and individual time with their paternal grandparents.

Oren

On Monday, my mom took us to the Aquarium – one of our favorite places to visit in Baltimore. I think Oren enjoyed it even more this year and was very observant about what we were seeing. David has less stamina for spending a long time in front of any one tank, but it was still great to be there. In the middle of the day, Jean took us to the Hard Rock café, truly a blast from the past (1980’s) kind of cool. It was really interesting and funny to realize how little my kids know about rock n’ roll.


Lincoln Memorial

Tuesday was our Washington Day. Cousin Gabriel joined us for the outing, and we were so glad he did. Because of the rising risks of Covid, we elected to do a self-guided walking tour of several national monuments around the Mall to keep ourselves outdoors. So, we drove all the way downtown and then started with viewing the White House from a distance. It’s amazing how much more security there is surrounding the place these days. We walked past and through the WWII monument – very grand and nationalistic – and then noted the stark contrasts with the Vietnam Veterans memorial. The cost of war is so much more personal and reflective in the second monument. 

We moved on to the Lincoln memorial, and I was most impressed with the engraving of Lincoln’s second inaugural address, given in the midst of the deadly Civil War. He was essentially asking: who are we to complain if our just God judges our nation for the sin of slavery, and if he, for every drop of blood spilled by the whip, demands payment by blood spilled at the point of the sword. He was praying for mercy, but clearly placed himself humbly under God’s justice. I didn’t know he was such a theological thinker and I was truly moved. 

MLK,Jr monument

Next, we arrived at the Martin Luther King, Jr. memorial, which was again very moving and inspiring. King was a national treasure, taken from us far too soon, a fact expressed artistically by the unfinished parts of the statue honoring him. We continued walking around the tidal basin to the Jefferson Memorial and noted how MLK’s monument lies across a straight line between Lincoln and Jefferson – a very interesting bit of monument planning with interesting interpretations. Finally, we walked back to the National Mall and the American history museum to get some late lunch and eat outside. We were pretty tired by that point, having walked 8 km, but it was good to see some interesting history exhibits after all the monuments. We drove back home in the evening, tired but glad we had gone together.

We needed a quiet day Wednesday after all that activity, with time to catch up on our work. I also had doctor’s appointments Weds and Thursday. I got one long walk in the woods by myself after a trip to the doctor in town. Paul and I made a special anniversary supper for my parents one evening. 

Anniversary dinner

Towards the end of the week we were due for our second Covid vaccine, and also needed to do a bit of shopping. Most of us had some flu like symptoms after the second shot, perhaps because the kids and I almost certainly had Covid last December (only Paul felt totally fine), so we also needed some down time at the end of the week.

Friday was a big day. Our friends the Ballards came over to spend time with us in the early part of the day. It was great to catch up with them and also fit in a game of croquet. 


Anniversary flowers
And then Paul and I got dressed up to go to a home church wedding, between two young adults at North Baltimore Mennonite Church. The groom was the son of our good friends and renters of our Baltimore house, who happen to be from Ethiopia. We carpooled with my brother’s family and met lots of church friends at this wedding. The service was in both English and Amharic, and involved a real blending of cultures. It was a wonderful opportunity to catch up with a few old friends we hadn’t seen yet, while we also got to meet a woman who will be our neighbor in Addis. It truly felt like a small world. We had left the kids with my parents, but later realized that they would have enjoyed the dinner and dancing aspect of the evening a lot with their cousins and other kids from the church.

Hannah and Israel

Over the weekend,  we took the chance to take a walk at Loch Raven reservoir to a peaceful corner in the woods. And Paul, David and I were really wanting to enjoy some good sushi, so we fit that into our day.  We got to attend church in-person on the lawn outside the sanctuary and really enjoyed that. We met our parents for a traditional Indian lunch – something we used to do often when we lived in Maryland. And then we joined up with my brother and his kids for some time at their pool – which was very refreshing and relaxing.

Log walking at Loch Raven


Our last week of home leave took us in a few different directions. Paul and his dad left for a quick trip to North Carolina to see his middle brother and wife. It was just one overnight, but it really felt important to see them and spend some time and visit them in their new home down there. I think Paul also was glad for the time in the car with his dad and the time to talk with nephew Charlie on the phone while they drove.

Paul and Henry with Mark

Meanwhile, I woke up early with the kids on Monday and we went to support the VBS program of our church, Peace Camp. Oren and David volunteered as junior youth leaders for three days that week, helping to animate and focus the younger campers (grades 3 – 6). I caught my boys actually having fun themselves playing the big group games outdoors and working on skits with their small groups. I really wanted them to find a way to keep that personal connection with our home church somehow. It’s harder this summer with only one possible in-person service, and no youth group meetings. But I think serving was a good way for them to stay connected and challenged. I also helped by leading music for the group on those days. Then I went off to do my office work in some corner of the public park where the kids were meeting.
Peace camp banner

 

Peace Camp met at the same park where the zoo is located and so on Monday our friend Ashley agreed to take us into the Zoo, along with her son and another church friend David’s age. The three of them were quite a trio and I think they really enjoyed themselves seeing the animals and even going through all the slides several times. 


zoo friends

They are pushing the upper end of the age limit, but it’s great to see 12 year olds still willing to enjoy their childhood, not growing up too fast. When we left the Zoo, we went to spend a little time with my Aunt Jo. I was so glad to see her and talk with her a little bit one-on-one. Oren was fascinated by her description of the disputes with her Trumpist neighbor, who has literally built a wall of Trump signs to divide their properties. She has decided to do nothing – nothing including not cutting the grass next to those signs, in hopes that the weeds will grow up and obscure the barrier with green! This is how personal the political is getting in our country right now.
Cousins gathering

Our final activity of the day took us to my cousin Colette’s house, where we met Gretchen, my cousin visiting from Texas. It has been incredibly long since we’ve seen each other, and I was so glad to be in town finally on one of her visits. Gretchen is a marvelous facilitator of conversation, and she got us all talking about what we did for our first jobs, as well as what we might dream of doing in our lives if we had the skill and opportunity. We were hosted by my cousins Colette and George, and joined by another cousin, Dan, so it was truly a great family get-together.

David, Oren, Gabe, Miriam

 We were back at Peace Camp Tuesday morning, but then came home to spend a quieter afternoon recovering. Late in the day, I decided to take David to this great fishing hole I’d seen on one of my jogs through the forest. I thought it wasn’t far, but it turned out that we had to walk 25 minutes to get there. By the time I had found some worms as bait, the sky was starting rumble. We saw a hole bunch of big fish, including a long American eel, but these fish were clever and weren’t biting. The sky kept rumbling more seriously and I urged David that it was time to go to avoid flash floods. 

At the fishing hole

But he still hadn’t caught anything and really wanted to persist. Finally a few raindrops started to fall and, and he also became alarmed and ready to go. As we turned to leave, the wind picked up and I remembered the other hazards of being in a forest in a storm: lightning and falling limbs. The danger was suddenly pretty clear to him too and we literally ran back to the car as fast as we could make our legs carry us (return trip in 15 minutes), with small leaves and twigs falling around us and lightning getting close. The rain started the second we reached the car, and by the time I had backed out and started driving away, the heavens opened and it was bucketing rain. As David said, as far as a fishing trip it ranked 0 out of 10; as far as an adrenaline rush adventure, it ranked about 100! Oren had been left at home alone and he was really worried for us, so he was glad to see us back. We topped off that day with dessert with our family friends Louise and Jack Ballard.

Dinner with Henry and Bunny

Other highlights of our last few days included a nice dinner with Bunny and Henry. We enjoy going to one of their dining rooms with them, and then going out in the cool of the evening to play bocce ball on the great course they have in their senior living center. On Saturday, We had a little time to visit with Genet, our friend and renter. And we were able to stop by and wish Miriam a happy birthday, as well as seeing my brother a few more times. We needed time for packing, of course, but also fit in some yard work with my parents and a few more trips to the Gunpowder, much more peaceful, with excellent fishing on our final Sunday in Fallston.

Final Gunpowder outing


And now we will be back in Addis in about six hours and finally I think we are ready to be back. We are looking forward to establishing a home there, making friends, and really digging into the work. We got good news in the midst of our home leave that David finally got a place in 7th grade, so he will be going to school in the typical fashion, making it much easier for us to learn about our new context and do our job together as a couple, rather than needing to learn how to facilitate home school on top of everything. And there will be much to do when we return to Ethiopia, particularly a new and concerning need for emergency relief work. Violence in the north is spilling southward, and out into other regions. There are hundreds of thousands of people displaced who need food aid and other support. We will need to work hard with our team to figure out the appropriate responses. And so that will be our focus in the coming days. Thanks for praying for us as we work to transition into a new normal life, and for the nation of Ethiopia, especially for a peaceful resolution of these conflicts which are making life so difficult for so many ordinary people who just want to make a living.

 

Many bonus photos:

Cousins playing horseshoes

Rainbow at my parents' house

David, Oren and Miriam

Oren at Peace Camp

Picking blackberries with Jean

Butterfly in the berries

and another

Pie almost finished

Our view of the Bay

Fishing

Dave and Bunny

Cornhole again

Full moon on the water

Gorgeous moth

More corn hole

Swinging at the Fair

David and Liam fishing

A good throw at Bocce ball

Paul and Bunny

Measuring a close call in bocce

Gabe in DC

Jefferson monument, our guys in the background

Sushi feast!

morning Spiderweb in the forest 

Peace camp games

Zoo lion

and more zoo lion!

Oren as all the animals (panorama shot)

Gunpowder Falls beauty

Final morning of great fishing

Henry and Oren

David and Dave

David, otters at the zoo


 

Saturday, July 17, 2021

First Official Week in Addis (or when amoebic dysentary isn't the worst thing that happened this week)

 An overdue update following our final blog in Tanzania. If you are following us regularly, you know that we just officially moved from Tanzania to finally settle in our new home in Addis Ababa, after about 4 months of transition with Rebecca and I switching off on stints in Addis each month while the kids finished school in Arusha. 

Rebecca completed the last Tanzania blog on the 2-hour flight between the two cities. There really was no time before our actual departure to write a word. The final days were a whirlwind of social activities and selling off all of our assets. It was both draining and melancholic. It was not really until we are on the flight leaving Arusha that we actually had a moment to reflect on the finality of it all. 

Given the momentousness of the change, the short flight seems almost anticlimactic. We left in the early afternoon and arrived in Addis before dark. We had about a dozen bags in tow and paid a hefty $600 to bring everything we did not want to leave. (We did have to leave a couple of packed suitcases for friends to bring.) We arrived in Addis around 8pm and found the airport and immigration to be relatively empty. We moved through the processes quickly, found all of our bags, and were not stopped even momentarily in customs. We found Wondeweson, our logistics officer waiting for us in the parking lot. He had wisely arranged to have 2 vehicles there since we had 12 bags and four people. I drove one of them and he drove the other. The drive back to the compound was uneventful and we arrived to two very enthusiastic dogs who were particularly happy to see David again. 

Yeshi, our cook, had left a fully prepared Ethiopian meal on our dining room table, which I partook of enthusiastically. We were actually 'home' for the final time, with all of our stuff. We settled into our rooms and spent our first night in our respective bedrooms. Admittedly, David was probably the most enthusiastic about the move as he had really been looking forward to seeing the dogs again. 

Since we arrived on a Thursday, we had our first full workday in the Addis office on Friday. We had a staff meeting with three of our staff in the morning and caught up on activities that were happening on the ground. We are extremely busy with a number of projects at critical points as well as a number of social events highlighted by the upcoming wedding of Eyerusalem our accountant. 

After a day of work, it was good to have the first weekend to regroup. One of the answers to prayer which we received was to find that a family of Brits from the church we have been going to in Addis (when we are here) had moved into the house next door to us. He (Peter) teaches at a theological college in Addis. She (Katy) is occupied with homeschooling their kids. Two of their kids are around David's age and we do see some chance for support in homeschooling if David is not able to get a place in the school before the beginning of the semester. 

We had a chance to have an evening with them on Sunday along with a young German couple who is staying with them. It was great to have such an open friendly family right next door to us. Oren also has an immediate friend connection in Barcutt (English spelling?) a guy Oren's age who is the son of one of our staff. He and Oren have a lot of common interests around certain computer games as well as chess, and they spent several evenings together. 

It is rainy season in Addis and the weather is cool and clammy. We found ourselves using the fireplace several times a week in the evenings. Electrical power has also not been completely dependable, so a fire at night is both a source of warmth and light. 

Sadly, I found myself feeling a bit under the weather on the first weekend, and by Monday morning I had a fever and felt really bad. My first suspicion was COVID as our last week in Arusha was very difficult to keep social distance with all the goodbyes and Tanzania is entering its third wave. I went to a clinic on Monday and got my results back by evening: negative. It was a relief but did leave my spiking fever all the more mysterious. 

On Monday, Rebecca had to do the work in the office for both of us as I could not get out of bed, and since it was the time of financial reporting, she and Eyerus were very busy. By Tuesday though, I still could hardly get out of bed and this time I asked her to drive me to the clinic to see a doctor. We were relieved to find it pretty empty on Tuesday morning and I was able to get in. Despite the lack of stomach pain, the doctor suspected amebiasis, and a stool sample confirmed his suspicion. I got some antibiotics and spent the rest of the day in bed sleeping. 

Amoeba is a common problem in Addis, but we had only been there 3 days, so it seems unlikely I got i there. Looking back, I suspect it was the Mt. Kilimanjaro trip that gave me that parting gift from Tanzania. Truthfully, the fecal-oral burden of disease on the 7-day Lemosho route would have to be quite high given the scarcity of water to wash vegetables, or even hands after using the bathroom. I am actually surprised we did not get sick sooner. Fortunately, I felt well enough to return to work on Wednesday and was able to finish the week strong. 

I would have thought this would be the biggest challenge we faced during the week, but I was going to be proved wrong. On Thursday, we had planned to go to the immigration office with Wonde (our logistics officer) to get residence permits for Rebecca and the kids. (I already had mine). It is good to prepare mentally for a long process as bureaucracy moves slowly in these contexts. From Tanzania, we are also used to failure even after a sincere effort to comply with every 'jot and tiddle' of the law. 

I was not prepared, though to spend the whole day waiting to be served. When we got there, at about 9 am, there were already many people sitting around in the seats of a large atrium that resembled a bus terminal. After going to the window to register, we were given a number: 212. I looked and saw that they were at #50, but had about 4 windows serving people. I estimated that at 1 person a minute, we would be served in about 3 hours (We had our masks on and did our best to stay as far away from others as possible). Then, within a minute of being there, 3 of the windows closed and service slowed to about one person every 5 minutes. At 1pm, the entire office closed and everyone went to lunch. we were at about number 80 then. We decided to return to the office and came back at around 3:30 pm. There were on about #150. Oren and David were not happy about spending the entire day there, and I did worry about not getting served before 5pm. Long story short, we waited until 5pm, and right on the hour, our number was called. 

We got to the desk, the clerk reviewed our extensive documentation and said: "It looks good, but where is your cover letter?" We had not prepared one. So after waiting the whole day, we were sent home without completing the task. It was frustrating to not know we were missing something and were not able to even have our documents checked without waiting 8 hours. We rewarded the kids for their patience by going to Coldstone Creamery that evening (a surprising offering in Addis--but super expensive).

The next day we went extra early. We brought all of our documents and cover letter and waited several hours again. (I multitasked by having a meeting with our food security manager at a nearby restaurant while we waited.) We again got to the front of the line and hoped to complete. This time though, they looked at the kids' birth certificates and said that since they did not have authentification from the Ethiopian embassy in the US, they would not accept them as authentic. We left again without completing and were considerably more frustrated. 

Fortunately, we have planned a 30-day home leave and could add authenticating birth certificates to our list of things to do. I would be apoplectic if this kind of problem had not been par for the course for the entire time we have been overseas. Tanzania was particularly challenging, so Ethiopia should feel easier by comparison, even with this setback. 

Saturday was not a day off. Rebecca planned to orient our IVEPers. These are one-year volunteers who will spend a year in the US. We gave two young women a cultural orientation during the day, including sharing a meal and talking about what life in an American family would be like. It was an interesting experience. 

Sunday, we were able to go to our church, where Peter, our neighbor was leading an adult Bible study. It was a really nice service and good to see friends we had made in the past several months. In the afternoon, we tried out one of the local malls known for having entertainment including climbing walls, trampolines, escape rooms, laser tag, and several floors of arcades. Our family did an escape room together (failed miserably), then spent a few hours in the arcades. We did our best to avoid crowds and stayed masked the whole time. We did not want to risk COVID on our last 3 days. 

The following 3 days were kind of a blur. I was very busy with financial reports coming in from partners while Rebeca worked on packing. We went in for our n-teenth COVID test as a family in preparation for flying. The kids occupied themselves playing with new friends, playing monopoly, and doing a puzzle when there was no power to do anything on the internet.

Rebecca had taken on the project of packing items that the former Reps had left and were hoping to have someone bring back, as well as wedding gifts for the son of our Ethiopian subletters in the US. We were happy to bring gifts from relatives of our friends, although it ended up being about 4 suitcases all said and done. (Fortunately, we were packing light for our return trip.) Rebecca had unbelievably hectic days right up to the last minute, including going to an art gallery to get pictures taken off frames, and running around town to meet relatives of our Ethiopian friends in the US. On top of all that, we also hosted Eyerusalem and her fiance Moses on Tuesday for a lunch reception with MCC staff. Thankfully we have our excellent cook who prepared a very nice Ethiopian meal for us. 

After a full day of work on Wednesday, we finally headed to the airport in the evening to catch the 17-hour non-stop Ethiopian flight from Addis to Dulles. Happily, the travel went off without a hitch despite the plane being completely packed. We arrived about an hour early, but Dave Sack was there to meet us and take us directly to a pharmacy where we had an appointment to get vaccinated.

It was honestly a great relief to get the vaccine. It is scary worrying about COVID in Africa where we have been in countries where even oxygen is often in short supply. 

We are now back in the US for a month and will give an update in the weeks ahead. 




Sunday, May 23, 2021

Field Visits (Bahir Dar and Debre Markos) and School Options

I have not even tried to write a blog for well over a month. I am not sure what to say about this season, but it has felt like a time of much action with little reflection. It is true that this time of transition, which has involved Rebecca and I tag-teaming our Ethiopia Rep. assignment since February, and parenting in Arusha as the alternative has been difficult. I will say, we are at our best when we can work together at all things, but this time of 'divide and conquer' while not sustainable, is the best solution we have found until the kids finish school in June. 

As you know from previous entries, Rebecca spent several weeks in Addis in the month of April while I focused on parenting and working remotely when they were at school. Now, in May, I have been in Addis for several weeks while she is back in Arusha. While the removal of the burden of parenting here does allow more 'free time' in the evening, the workload during the day is quite exhausting and leaves little desire to sit in front of a screen and write. The Ethiopia assignment is a larger workload by several orders of magnitude over the Tanzania program responsibilities. I can spend an entire day doing nothing but answering emails, or for that matter, printing out reports and filing them in large binders for each project. 

Certain processes here feel more 'old-fashioned' compared to our work in Tanzania. Almost everything I do involves writing a letter (complete with reference number that is kept in a book) printing it out, signing it, stamping it, and then scanning it and sending it by email somewhere, then filing it in a binder. Processes that were done with a click of a button, like transferring money, now involve two or three such letters to bank, partner, and then follow up to make sure I receive similar documentation back which is also filed away electronically and in hard copy as well. I am not a 'details' person, so this kind of methodical record-keeping adds a lot of work to the day, and I am not always the best at completing every step perfectly.

Despite this, I can count, among our successes this month, my application, and successful completion of the process to get a work permit here. The collection of documentation required to complete this began in May of 2020, because getting original copies of transcripts, diplomas, background checks, etc., then having them notarized at the local, state, and even at the Dept. of State level during COVID took about 12 months. The process was delayed in February this year when I arrived in Addis on a tourist visa. I had to wait until I returned in May on a business visa to complete the process. The successful completion of the process is almost entirely attributable to our GSO (General Services Officer) Wondweson who made multiple trips to the labor office and immigration to move the process along. (We also had to create numerous official, stamped, documents and cover letters from the MCC Ethiopia office supporting my application.) But in the end, I did succeed in getting the work permit. (It has to be renewed every single year, but the renewal is less grueling from what I understand.) I am now in the process of getting a residence permit from immigration, but with a work permit, that process is more straightforward.

(If you found the last paragraph tedious to read, that was the intention.)

So now, as a freshly minted MCC Ethiopia Country Representative, I have the authority to sign letters and use the MCCE stamp! Fortunately, this process did not prevent me from doing some other things that were more interesting the past 2 weeks, the highlight of which was a one week trip to visit two partners in the country to the North West of Addis near the towns of Bahir Dar (by lake Tanna), and Debre Markos. 

We left a week ago on a Monday morning. Our company included me, Wondeweson our GSO who also acted as driver, Sisay, our departing Food Security Programs Manager, and Mesfin, our incoming FS Program Manger. The trip was intended to be an introduction and orientation for Mesfin and I to two of our partners who work near these towns. 

We left about 6am on Monday because the first stop, Bahir Dar, was about a 10 hour drive. Our plan was to go to the furthest point first, then work our way back to Debre Markos on the way back. The trip was quite spectacular in terms of scenery, among the more impressive geological features was the Nile River valley, an enormous canyon at least 20-50 miles across and thousands of feet deep. From the top of one side you can see the road for at least 100 kilometers. It was not extremely treacherous as the road was fairly good, but well trafficked by trucks carrying freight. 

We arrived in early evening in Bahir Dar and checked into our hotel. The next day we met Shimetta the director of our partner AEID (Afro-Ethiopia Integrated Development) who was to be our guide to several project sites. AEID does WASH (Water Sanitation and Hygiene) projects with us and is well equipped to do so as they own a portable drill that can drill to 100 meters, a medium length well, definitely preferable to the shallow 30-meter hand-dug wells that many communities must make do with. 

The need for clean fresh accessible water in the communities where they work is acute. Water sources can often be contaminated and women may travel 10 or more kilometers to get water. Ideally, an individual should have access to 25 liters per day, but a woman who must carry jugs 10 or more kilometers can barely manage 25 liters for a family of 5. AEID drills 6-10 well per year through a project we sponsor. 

We planned to visit several water points and at each site, we were able to see evidence of the appreciation from the community by the long lines of people bringing their 25-liter jugs to fill. At each point, we were invited by community leaders into one of their homes to share enjera with shiro (a chickpea sauce) along with local beer called t'ella, followed by a shot of local whiskey called 'areke'. 

I admit that what put me most out of my comfort zone was what I call 'asymmetrical risk tolerance' for exposure to COVID. The MCC and team and AEID team all wore masks at all times, but refusal to accept the hospitality of the community, involving sitting in a crowded 'hut' with others and removing a mask to eat and drink, would have been  perceived as a significant sleight and quite rude. I did not feel I could refuse, having chosen to come, but I did try to minimize the time in the homes. 

The second site we visited was particularly interesting because the drill was in operation putting in a 70-meter shallow well. It was fascinating to see it work. I was told that from start to finish a well is drilled and capped with a wellhead and cistern in less than one week. The community was out in force around the huge truck and we shared a big feast provided by a freshly slaughtered sheep right by the drill site. the community elder in this sub-village was an elderly woman who also welcomed us into her home for t'ella and areke. 

The third waterpoint, visited in the late afternoon, appeared inaccessible because of a washed-out bridge, (we are in the short rainy season). We decided to go the last 3 kilometers on foot and followed a flooded gully until we got to the community where the water point was. We arrived in time for a terrific thunderstorm and we once again took shelter in a small home which could have been a perfect setting for the creche of baby Jesus. Animals and people were all crowded into the home where we once again shared food and drink. While we did our best to maintain social distance I was uncomfortably close to a newborn calf who easily breathed onto my face as I sat against the wall. 

There was a break in the storm and we pretty much ran back a 'short-cut' (still 3 kms) over a small mountain back to the road where the car was. Despite high wind and lightning, we made it intact. We drove the 150 kms back to Bahir-Dar and arrived after dark. It was an exhausting but fascinating day. 

The next morning we got up early again and after breakfast and checking out of our hotel, we visited two more water points. Getting to them was, at this point, treacherous as the roads to the sub-villages were deep in mud and we had to go in a 4 wheel vehicle. Despite our best efforts we only made it to one of the two before we had to continue our journey to our next destination, the town of Debre Markos, about4 hours down the road. 

We arrived in Debre Markos in the afternoon and checked into another hotel. Debre Markos is not as charming as Bahir-Dar, which abuts a lake. In Debre Markos, our hotel was across the street from a large bus terminal which was quite loud, even from my third-floor vantage point. 

The next morning we headed to the office of our partner MSCFSO (too long to explain). They are, in short, a partner who specializes in improving food security through impressive watershed rehabilitation programs combined with training farmers in low-tillage 'conservation agriculture techniques to improve soil fertility and increased yield. We spent the morning seeing a 'before and 'after' slideshow which was staggering in scope. They improve land 1200 or more hectares at a time each year. The process involves working in large river valleys and building contour lines or soil bunds which prevent erosion. They manage grazing and put rock dams into enormous gulleys, some 30 or more feet deep which eat up the land. They plant trees on the bunds like certain species of acacia which can be used for charcoal as well as fodder for livestock. The transformation of the land, visible within even a year is impressive as one looks across a valley and sees shrub-covered bunds and tree-filled gulleys, especially in comparison to areas where they have not yet begun work. 

MSCFSO also does WASH projects in schools and communities in the same area and we visited several waterpoints. They also have been helping particularly vulnerable women in the communities where they work with income-generating projects to help them recover from loss of market access because of Covid.  We visited several women who had a dozen chickens as well as vermiculture compost which they use to generate income. 

We spent two days visiting projects of MSCFSO and it was one of the more impressive interventions I have seen. We ended our second day with a traditional coffee ceremony to welcome Mesfin and me, as well as a farewell to Sisay who has been working with them for the past 5 years. (Sisay accepted a position with MCC in Malawi which is the reason for his departure from the Ethiopia program.)

We had a good night's sleep then again left early in the morning for our return to Addis. We returned again by late afternoon. It was good to be back, probably not a moment too soon because there has been some ethnic violence in the region where we were around the upcoming election. When we arrived back in Addis, we heard that the road from Bahir Dar to Debre Markos had been closed due to violence that had blocked the highway. 

We returned on a Saturday, and I enjoyed having a weekend off. I went to the Lutheran church we have been attending and checked in with people we knew there. 

This brings me to a second very important mission I have been on, since my return in May. The fact is, we have a significant challenge as a family. We had hoped to put our kids in a nearby school that is affordable and uses the same Cambridge curriculum they have been using in Arusha. We received, however, somewhat devastating news that while Oren was accepted into 11th grade, David was waitlisted for grade 7 because of lack of space. 

This was very unexpected and very depressing for us. Both Rebecca and I need to work nearly full-time to keep this program running. There are few other options. The International school that is nearby is outrageously expensive at $40,000 for the first year. Other international schools would require a commute of more than 1 hour each way with no school bus option. So Rebecca or I would have to drive 4 hours per day to and from that school. 

After considering all options, we decided that homeschool until a place opens up is likely the least onerous. Fortunately, we found that Bingham school (where Oren is going) has a homeschool community connected to it in which kids can participate in extracurriculars at the school and even attend some classes. I was able to get in contact with some families who are connected with this group and even had a chance to visit a meeting of the group this past Saturday. It was encouraging to find a supportive community with many kids David's age. Despite our trepidation about homeschooling, it seems like this could be a sustainable short-term solution until space opens up at Bingham. 

I also visited several of the non-viable schools and found that they would have been reasonable second options if they weren't either extremely far away or too expensive. We are trusting God as we prepare for a short-term home school option for David  (maybe find a tutor?). It is good to know he can have a social life with this option though. 

In order to explore school options, I extended my stay an additional week so I will have been here for almost the entire month of May. I will return just before June, hopefully with my residence as well as my work permit. Our family will be returning to Addis for good on July 1. But before that, we have at least one more mountain to climb in Tanzania...more later. 

(For any Tolkien buffs, I was listening to Lord of the Rings during the long drives for the n-teenth time. I found it interesting that Bahir-Dar is a town just south of the region of Gondur in NW Ethiopia. I could not help but notice that Bahir-Dar sounds a lot like Barad-dûr home of Sauron, and Gondur sounds like Gondor, the land of Aragorn. Coincidence?)

Thursday, April 29, 2021

Openness

Rebecca with MK College guide
Henok and Solomon, my colleague

Rebecca writing this edition of the Ethiopia blog. I’ve been in Addis for almost three weeks and now I’m sitting in the departure lounge getting ready to head back to Tanzania for my final two months there. I’m grateful to Paul for insisting that I come and spend some time with the program here, solo, while he stayed back in Arusha with the kids. It’s been challenging for him to balance the heavy workload and the parenting. But meanwhile, I’ve had the chance to experience the rhythm of work and life here and to sense many possibilities for making this our home.

I arrived on a Sunday night and our wonderful General Services Officer Wondwesen picked me up from the airport and took me home. I was able to start the work week with the rest of my team Monday morning, getting accustomed to how we do things in the office here, with a tea break together, Monday staff meeting, time for office work, lunch prepared by our amazing cook Yeshi, and more hours at the desk. 

our shared desk in the office

In my first week, there were a few highlights, especially meeting the founder and director of one of our food security partners. I’m glad to know more about his original inspiration for starting Migbare Senay, and to understand how the organization has evolved beyond his original vision. A lot of the conversation needed to be conducted through translation, but there again my colleague and Program Manager Solomon was invaluable in being relational and curious on my behalf.

A lot of the work I needed to do on my stay here was in the financial realm since I will be overseeing financial reporting for our program. Our accountant and administrator Eyerusalem does all the real work, but I need to check it all and make sure it aligns with our budget. In addition, Ethiopia has very stringent requirements for documentation and compliance for NGOs. So, I needed to do a lot of composing official letters, stamping, copying, scanning, filing, etc.

Habesha food for staff lunch

Unfortunately, the COVID pandemic is amid another big surge in Addis, and while I was there, it was touching our team personally. One team member had just recovered, but the whole extended family then fell ill. Another team member lost an uncle who had been hospitalized. Everyone knew of church members or neighbors who had passed away in that week. People do appear to be taking precautions and wearing masks in public, but the virus still spreads. In addition, tensions are rising in many parts of the country ahead of the elections. Unfortunately, ethnicity is playing a role in sparking violence. Our housekeepers’ extended family had to flee their homes at one point last week, because armed militia of another ethnic group were coming through, killing people and burning houses. Many prayers are needed for the country to hold together through this election season and to not lose the ground they have gained as a nation, in terms of economic development and political standing on the continent.

Another major role I will take is overseeing our human resource processes. My initial task was to conduct annual performance appraisals with all the members of our program staff. I really enjoy having these times to meet one on one with colleagues and to learn more about their jobs and how they feel about their work. We managed to fit in all those meetings. Paul and I had our own performance appraisal with our bosses virtually, and I had to spend many hours in preparation, putting together my work plan for this new job. 

Welcome tea for Mesfin, with Wonde, Mesfin, 
Solomon, Yeshi and Yerusalem
In addition, over the past three days, I have been helping to orient our new Food Security Programs Manager. He started Monday and he will replace Sisay in working with our conservation agriculture partners. (Sisay is moving to another MCC program in Southern Africa.) We can immediately tell that Mesfin is a warm and experienced person, who will fit in very well with the team, along with having excellent practical experience with MCC partners under his belt. It has been stressful to deal with the transition of a key member of our team, just as we are starting our role. But we are grateful that we were able to recruit such an excellent candidate so quickly.

Donor meeting at the Hyatt

And speaking of Food Security, on my second day in the office, Sisay had helped to organize a high-level donor meeting at a downtown hotel. It was a good opportunity for me to go and meet other NGO leaders and support him. Our MCC partners have just finished a 5-year project funded by the Canadian government, teaching local communities about this kind of climate-smart agriculture that improves soil quality, rather than further depleting it. It was an incredible success, and along with the development work, research was done to document all these successes. The donor allocated funds to share these results as widely as possible, and thanks to strong advocacy by our partners, the Ministry of Agriculture has come on board to also adopt this method and spread it far and wide in Ethiopia. The main problem is that local partners need more donors to support them in scaling up this work. I found that most of the invited donors were not yet committed to supporting conservation agriculture though they were interested and asking lots of questions. Paul has been more focused on our CA work so far in the program, but thankfully I know enough about the work we’ve been supporting to speak up and encourage other donors to join us in this common effort. Getting to the meeting required me to take taxis, also a bit of an adventure, but my taxi driver back to the office also turned out to be a very engaging Amharic tutor.
One of my walking hills

Another aspect of my role will be to support our various young adult exchange candidates. We are hoping to send two or three young people to the US to serve for a year with the IVEP program. I took several hours each with two young women on my first week, helping them to fill out the very extensive application form for a US non-immigrant visa. A lot of online work is required these days for everyone, and these young women don’t have computers of their own. In addition, the form is not easy to understand and fill out correctly. So, along with that practical work, I was glad to have time to meet with each of these young people and get to know them before we send them off.

There was so much work to do that I found myself sitting at my desk most days until 5:30 pm. By 5:15 my newly adopted dogs started to get impatient, as if an alarm clock was going off in their heads. They would trot into the office and come nibble at my toes to get me to put away my computer. After sitting for so long, it felt very good to take time for a walk around my neighborhood. The streets are circuitous and a bit random, so I had some adventures, finding my way around new routes that would give me a good healthy walk for an hour or so. At almost 8000 ft, walking uphill definitely got my heart rate up! 

And then when I got home from walking, it was time to collect the day’s egg production. Sadly, the hens are not laying quite so many eggs these days: our suspicion is that they just don’t get as much variety to eat, since there aren’t so many humans living there, eating and creating vegetable peelings for extra chicken nutrition. I did enjoy taking the compost pot down to the hens: how often do you have the complete and full attention of 40 other living beings, tracking your every move? They couldn’t take their eyes off me until I tipped the pot over and let them go to town.

Chickens roosting in
the evening

And the dogs were always happy to keep me company in the evenings. Neither of them is big, and they really love to cuddle with humans on the couch. Bella is super cute but is a bit of a troublemaker, at just a year old. Once or twice, she stole food off the counter and broke a dish, and our housekeeper is not happy with her! We’ll need to lay down the law with her when we can catch her at her mischief. Friday, the older dog, has such a funny face. I always feel like I have somehow deeply wounded her and have broken her heart, with the way she looks at me, but that she is just going to patiently put up with my unjust treatment. Sigh.  I’m sure that’s not what’s going on inside her little head, but that’s what her expressions convey to me.
Friday gives me baleful looks

Yeshi cooks very good food for staff lunches, and there are always leftovers. So, I hardly had to cook a thing while I was there, and it was nice to heat something in the microwave and then watch an episode of the Crown (a show that interests no one else in my family). It was interesting to have so much quiet, alone time, with no need to care for anyone else’s needs. I have not had anything like this much extended introvert time for more than 18 years!

On my first weekend, I decided to get behind the wheel for the first time in Addis and drive to a nearby shopping mall. I wasn’t sleeping that well and it seemed a new pillow was in order, along with a few other groceries. And then I tried out the enormous 50m  pool located in the center of the mall. The changing rooms were deserted, thankfully – the riskiest part of taking a swim. There were a few kids playing around in the pool, so I had to stay alert to not crash into anyone, but it was very refreshing to enjoy a different kind of exercise, apart from the workout I was doing in my living room in the mornings before work. 

Matilda online, "We are revolting children"

Both Friday and Saturday evening, I got to watch a special show: the St. Constantine’s production of “Matilda.” David was in the cast as a doctor and a school kid, and they had been rehearsing the play since October. The actual production was postponed several times due to events in Tanzania, but finally they performed. I was sad to miss seeing it in person, but at least I could watch in on Zoom, right along with all of David’s grandparents (and a whole lot of other far-flung relatives of cast members). Unfortunately, the sound quality on Zoom was terrible, but we could still get a good sense of the energy and focus of the students, and especially the very clever and engaging dance numbers.

Sunday afternoon nap

There were many ways throughout my first week that I felt like God was lining up appointments for me to meet people at just the right times. Getting appointments with the IVEP candidates at the right times was one example. I’ve taken over the egg business from my predecessors, and that has put me in touch with a group of nearby missionaries who are very friendly and helpful. And that led me to a much-needed appointment with another missionary to get advice about visas for short-term volunteers. But the greatest gift came on Sunday. I decided to attend the church Paul had been scoping out (though there are other options)—it’s basically community-led and very open to participation, though it’s not a big community. I was really blessed to hear a great sermon from a Pentecostal Finnish guy who, it turns out, attended the same seminary in Canada that I did. The Anglican worship leader also encouraged us all to take a moment and to pray about why God had brought us there that morning and with whom he was calling us to have a conversation after the service. And so right after the service, I was greeting a man whom I know slightly through our work and he spontaneously invited me to join his family for lunch. I had been planning to go for a hike, but it felt like the prompting was to take up this invitation.

our gate in the evening

Sam and his wife Kathy were incredibly gracious hosts, together with their college-aged daughter. They had prepared a homemade Mediterranean feast, and also had invited an Egyptian-Canadian friend. I learned so much from sitting with all of them and hearing about the best places to hike, the best Italian restaurants in Addis, the political situation, Covid vaccine availability in Addis, etc. We also had many deeper, more philosophical things to talk about as a multi-culturally gathered group of Christians and it was a truly delightful afternoon for me. I also fit in an afternoon nap with the dogs that Sunday along with an extra-long walk around my neighborhood.

RPC office staff with Solomon & I on the right

Another work-related highlight was a field visit I took with Solomon and Wondwesen last week. We first stopped at the Addis Ababa head office of our partner “Remember the Poorest Community.” They are historically linked with the outreach ministry of one of the oldest Ethiopian Mennonite congregations. That previous generation really wanted to help children of very poor single mothers, and decided to open a preschool for orphans and vulnerable children. MCC has been a partner of that kindergarten for many years. In 2016, MCC started to support a nutrition program because teachers noted that children arrived to school hungry, with empty lunchboxes, unable to concentrate in class. The MCC school feeding program included balanced, nutritious, high-protein lunches and snacks five days a week. There was a marked improvement in children’s performance in school, attendance rates, and overall health. Kids who are well-nourished and attend three years of preschool school have a much better chance of succeeding – even excelling – when they enter free public primary school. Without that foundation, most of them fail in primary school and drop out, following in the footsteps of their impoverished parents.

Story-telling in the older preschool class

Sadly, that funding ended, and the program was cut, right when the COVID-19 pandemic started. At this point, MCC is only able to provide funding for tea and bread, 3 times a week. For some children, that small snack is the only reliable food they get because their family is so impoverished. Parents who were scraping by in the past through small businesses are finding it impossible to make ends meet in the time of COVID. The economic situation is extremely difficult for everyone currently.  The teaching staff are heartbroken to see their students sleepy and hungry, and they are using every possible means to try to make up the difference. They even committed to donating 3-5% of their very small salaries (they earn just $48 per month) to try to buy tea and bread for Tuesdays and Thursdays, but even that generosity does not meet the need for more than 2 more days a month. The staff of RPC made an earnest plea for MCC to find some way to help them restore part of the feeding program.

Younger preschool class "washing hands"
We went on to visit the school in Adama (Nazret), about an hour away. Two senior staff members introduced us to a few of the classrooms (we peered in through the open doors to reduce COVID exposure risk). The older children sang a few songs and recited things they had learned about body parts, letters, and other educational skills. One child entertained us with vigorous storytelling. Solomon tested the kids in fun, to see if they knew how to keep themselves safe from COVID. One four-year-old answered: “We wear our mask, we wash our hands, and  we eat our lunch!” Even young children had a very clear idea about sanitation, not touching their eyes or nose, and keeping their masks on (all the children seemed to have cloth masks to wear). We noted the energy and brightness that was evident among the students and the care of the teachers. The classrooms were all colorful and decorated with homemade posters – clearly a lot of effort has been made to develop an inviting and bright atmosphere in the school.

Principal Etgenet with the girls

Later we sat outside to talk with the school staff and a few parents. One parent, Mitiknesh Fekadu, spoke about how many of the children are street children, living in plastic houses. She asked why there is no feeding program. Her twin daughters performed at the top of their class this term.

Tilaya Hailemariam is a grandmother of twin boys. She is struggling to survive because the cost of living is so high, and with COVID, there is no opportunity for trade. Her daughter, the twins’ mother, is still around but has no work. Her two grandsons won 3rd and 4th place in class. Tigist is another committee member who raised the question of the school feeding. “It’s sad to see the kids have only bread – it isn’t enough.” Most of the children don’t have fathers but are raised by single mothers like herself. She struggles to even buy soap to wash her child’s clothing.

Twin boys with grandmother

The chair of the parents’ committee is an older man named Bahiru Jemal. He works closely in helping to choose beneficiaries for the school to make sure they choose kids whose parents could not afford to send their child to a private school. Only the poorest are enrolled, including many orphans who live with grandparents that really need help. The teachers are wonderful and it’s a model kindergarten, the best in Adama city, teaching kids to be creative and use local materials. Some parents send their kids long distances to come.

As a development worker, it is very convicting to hear these stories from community members. On the one hand, we recognize that these issues of poverty and hunger are not a problem with the school, but a structural problem in the community. The hunger needs to be dealt with on a broader level, because school feedings only treat the symptoms of the problem, are not sustainable, and don’t change the overall situation. Furthermore, education and school feeding are lower priorities for our organization right now, compared to bigger food security projects and interventions for displaced people. And yet, when one visits a school like this and hears the stories of how three years of a good preschool and good nutrition can make a difference in the life of individual kids who would have no chance otherwise – it’s hard to turn away and say no. This is one way to break the cycle of poverty for particular individuals. I was reminded of the story of a thousand stranded starfish. A man threw one back into the ocean. When asked, “Why bother?” he answered, “It made a difference to that one.” These are the very real dilemmas we are placed in when we work in contexts of poverty.

View from MK College in Debrezeit

In the afternoon, we visited the campus of the Meserete Kristos College, the institution where virtually all Mennonite pastors and leaders are trained. Our main purpose was to scout it out as a placement location for a potential short-term volunteer from the US. I was also very glad to meet the college president personally and to learn about their programs. It’s a very quiet, peaceful setting and the campus includes a working farm for income generation and feeding their students. I hope to be able to go back there for visits from time to time and stay in their guesthouse. There was the promise of some excellent birding…  

Entoto park view

On my second weekend in Addis, I took a longer drive to Entoto Park and spent most of the day walking from one end of the park to another, exploring and stretching my legs. Much of the time I was alone before I met up with another young couple out for a stroll or a family come to take photos and let their kids ride on the pedal carts. The eucalyptus forests are well preserved and thick, but it is not a natural forest, so not as much birdlife. Still, it was great to get out above the city and take a walk in a quieter environment. I walked more than 13 km up and down the hills in the park, with a cappuccino in there somewhere.

Apples forming on our trees

Early on in my solo visit, I had a chance to meet online with my spiritual director. We talked more about the passage I had been thinking about all during Lent from John 10: unless a grain of wheat falls into the ground and dies, it cannot bear fruit; but if it dies, it bears much fruit. I heard this as an invitation to hold loosely both the things I love in this world and the things I fear – not to cling to that which I love, and not to flee from that which I fear. Jane encouraged me to think even more deeply about the experience of the grain of wheat. It was once part of a stalk of many grains, a community, growing together, stored together. Suddenly it finds itself all alone, in cold, dark, unfamiliar ground. And at that point, the seed has a choice: to remain hardened, closed, grieving, refusing the instinct of life… or to open itself to totally new possibilities, the feel of the living water inviting it to put down roots, the sense of the warmth of the sun, yet unseen, above it, calling for a shoot to come out. Being open to change and growth is hard; it requires one to be split open, left vulnerable. It can be tempting to stay closed, to cling to the old, as the only way to honor the very real grief that we feel when life throws us a curveball. And yet openness is the only choice that leads to abundant life. I do give thanks to the Spirit at work in me, helping me to set aside more of my unholy grumpiness, my fleshly desire to close in, and to be open to more of the possibilities going forward. It’s been a good three weeks to practice that openness and to feel the growth that comes as a result. 
Coffee blossoms in our yard